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A Journey of Love, Achievement, and Forgiveness

 A Journey of Love, Achievement, and Forgiveness

Life is a beautiful journey filled with memories, achievements, and lessons. As I reflect on my path, there are four key lessons that have shaped me and continue to inspire me every day.

Remembering Mom in Heaven

Losing my mom was one of the hardest experiences of my life. Her absence leaves a void that nothing can fill, but her memory gives me strength. She taught me the importance of kindness, the value of every moment, and the drive to always aim for the best. Her teachings remind me that love transcends even the boundaries of life and death. She lives on in my heart, guiding me with the lessons she imparted.

Celebrating Others' Achievements

In the competitive race of life, it's easy to focus solely on our own goals. However, true fulfillment comes from celebrating the successes of those around us. When we recognize and applaud the achievements of our friends and community, we foster an environment of support and encouragement. By being genuinely happy for others, we not only uplift them but also set an example of humility and generosity. Our own achievements will naturally shine, and we will be remembered for our supportive spirit.

The Path to Becoming an Educator

My mom always believed in my potential and often reminded me, "You will be an educator someday." Her words are a constant source of motivation. They remind me to avoid distractions and focus on what truly matters. Time is our most valuable resource, and we must use it wisely. By investing in activities that contribute to personal growth and nation-building, we can make a lasting impact. Innovate, learn, and share your knowledge with others. This is how we contribute to a brighter future for our community and beyond.

The Power of Forgiveness

As we observe National Forgiveness Week, it's a good time to reflect on the importance of forgiveness. Holding onto grudges and resentment only harms us. Forgiving those who have wronged us, especially those who have spoken behind our backs, liberates us from negativity. Forgiveness is not about condoning actions but about freeing ourselves from the burden of anger. It allows us to move forward with peace and strength, fostering healthier relationships and a more positive outlook on life.

Simple Joys

Sometimes, it's the small things that make a big difference. Just one glass of Beterol-Tsoko-ah, simple yet delightful, made my day. It's a reminder to find joy in everyday moments and cherish the simple pleasures that bring happiness.

These lessons—cherishing the memory of loved ones, celebrating the success of others, focusing on meaningful goals, embracing forgiveness, and appreciating simple joys—are interconnected. They form a guide for living a fulfilling and impactful life. By integrating these principles into our daily lives, we can create a legacy of love, support, and positivity that will inspire others for generations to come.

Be More, Be Useful, and Be of Service

 

Go out and Be More, Be Useful, and Be of Service

Ladies and Gentlemen, distinguished guests, faculty members, proud parents, and, of course, the incredible graduating class, today marks a significant milestone in our lives. This graduation ceremony is not just a culmination of our academic journey but a stepping stone toward a future filled with endless possibilities.

Today, we stand on the threshold of a new beginning. Graduation is not merely a celebration of what we have achieved but a commencement of what we are about to embark upon. As we gather to mark this significant milestone, I want to share with you a mantra that has the potential to guide us through the many journeys we will undertake: 'Be More, Be Useful, and Be of Service.' This mantra encapsulates the essence of our collective experiences and our values.

Let's take a moment to cherish our shared experiences. From the first day we stepped into this institution, filled with excitement, anxiety, and dreams, to the last day, we have all grown together. We have faced uncertainties and challenges, but we have learned about resilience, compassion, and the power of community in these moments.

Allow me to share a personal story from my college years. During my fourth year of Computer Engineering, I grappled with a particularly challenging course: Thermodynamics. No matter how much I studied, the concepts seemed to elude me, and my confidence was shaken. I was on the verge of giving up, but then, a classmate who had once walked in my shoes offered his help. He dedicated hours to tutoring me, patiently explaining the material until I finally understood. This experience taught me the value of perseverance and seeking help. It was a turning point in my college journey, a lesson I carry with me today.

What struck me most was his knowledge, willingness to help, and dedication to helping someone in need. That experience taught me the value of being more than just a student; it taught me the power of service and the impact it can have on others.

As we move forward from this momentous day, remember to be more. Being more means continuously striving for personal growth. It means never settling for mediocrity and always seeking to expand our horizons. Whether through further education, learning new skills, or simply being open to new experiences, being more is about pushing our boundaries and realizing our fullest potential.

Next, let us aim to be helpful. Usefulness is about making a tangible impact in the world around us. It's about leveraging our skills, knowledge, and abilities to solve problems, innovate, and contribute positively to our communities. Being valuable means recognizing the needs around us and stepping up to address them. It's about turning our education and experiences into tools for progress.

Being useful involves taking initiative and being proactive in identifying opportunities to help. It's about seeing a challenge and not just acknowledging it, but actively working towards a solution. Whether through small daily actions or larger, long-term projects, our efforts can make a significant difference.

Let's focus on practical applications of our skills. Mentoring, volunteering, and sharing our expertise can empower others and multiply our impact. When we apply our knowledge to real-world situations, we enhance our understanding and contribute to the growth and development of those around us.

Usefulness also means being adaptable and open to learning. Our ability to adjust and find innovative solutions becomes crucial as we face new challenges. We ensure that our contributions remain relevant and impactful by staying curious and continually improving.

Ultimately, being useful is about making the world a better place through our actions. It's about creating value in every interaction, project, and endeavor we undertake. By committing to a mindset of usefulness, we can inspire others to do the same, leading to a community built on mutual support and meaningful contributions.

Finally, let us commit to service. Service is the highest form of giving. It's about putting others before ourselves and recognizing that our most outstanding achievements benefit others. Service means finding ways to make a difference through our professions, volunteer work, or everyday interactions. It's about creating a positive change in the world.

Service is a testament to our dedication to humanity. When we engage in acts of service, we are helping others and enriching our lives. Knowing we have made a positive impact fosters a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Service allows us to connect with people from all walks of life, broadening our perspectives and deepening our empathy.

By committing to service, we embrace the idea that we are all interconnected. Our actions can ripple out to touch countless lives, no matter how small. Whether mentoring a young person, supporting a community initiative, or simply offering a kind word, each act of service contributes to a culture of care and compassion.

Service also means leading by example. When we commit to helping others, we inspire those around us to do the same. This creates a cycle of giving and support that strengthens our communities and builds a foundation of trust and cooperation.

Let us pledge to integrate service into our daily lives. This can be through professional excellence, where we go above and beyond to meet the needs of others, or through personal acts of kindness that brighten someone's day. By making service a core value, we can collectively contribute to a more just and equitable world.

In embracing service, we acknowledge that our greatest legacy will be the positive changes we help create. Together, our combined efforts can leave a lasting impact that benefits future generations. Let us commit to this noble pursuit, knowing that every act of service brings us closer to a brighter, more inclusive future.

As we look back on our college journey, we can't help but feel a profound sense of pride and accomplishment. We remember the late-night study sessions, the camaraderie of group projects, and the mentors who guided us. These experiences have equipped us with academic knowledge and shaped our character, preparing us to face challenges head-on and persevere through adversity. Your achievements, big or small, are a testament to your hard work and dedication, and you should be immensely proud of them.

One such memory from my college days that embodies this mantra occurred during a community outreach program I participated in. We were tasked with organizing a series of workshops for underprivileged children. Initially, I was apprehensive, unsure of my ability to contribute meaningfully. However, as we interacted with the children, teaching them basic skills and seeing their eyes light up with understanding and joy, I realized the impact of service. It was not about grand gestures but small, consistent acts of kindness and support.

Another vivid memory revolves around the balance between work and play during college. There's an old saying that 'all work and no play makes you a dull boy,' and I found this true. During one particularly grueling semester, my friends and I decided to form a gaming group. Every weekend, we would gather to play video games—Blizzard games like Warcraft, Starcraft, Diablo, and even Red Alert—a much-needed break from our academic rigors. These sessions were more than just entertainment; they became a source of camaraderie and stress relief. We supported each other through challenging assignments and celebrated our small victories. This balance between work and play was crucial in keeping us motivated and mentally healthy, proving that recreation and relaxation are as important as hard work.

As you step into the next phase of your life, remember that the lessons you learned here extend far beyond the classroom. They are about empathy, perseverance, and lifting others as we climb. Every challenge you overcome, and every success you achieve can be a stepping stone for others. You have the power to make a difference, and I do not doubt that each of you will.

Embrace opportunities to be more by continuously learning and growing. Seek ways to be helpful by applying your talents to address real-world problems. Most importantly, we should serve others, for it is in serving that we find fulfillment and purpose.

As we step into the next phase of our lives, let us remember that we are not just individuals but a generation with the power to shape our nation. In a world that often emphasizes individual success, let us be the generation that values collective progress. Let us lead with integrity, act compassionately, and strive to make a difference. The world needs compassionate leaders, innovative thinkers, and dedicated individuals willing to serve. Each of you has a crucial role in this, and I do not doubt that you will rise to the occasion.

Let's talk more about my journey and how it embodies this mantra. I am the author of the book 'Ang Mahusay Online,' which promotes cyber safety. This work is a testament to my commitment to making the digital world safer for everyone. Furthermore, I am privileged to lead three companies in the technology sector: 8Layer Technologies, Inc., focusing on cybersecurity and fintech; NextBridge, a solution provider for software development; and Mara Linux and Business Solutions, Inc., dedicated to government projects. These ventures are driven by the desire to be more helpful and serve our clients and communities. My journey is a testament to the power of the mantra 'Be More, Be Useful, and Be of Service' and how it can shape our lives and careers.

Additionally, as the chartered president of the Rotary Club of QC MediaTech, I have been honored to initiate and lead projects that benefit our community. Our work in this club reflects our collective commitment to service above self. My role on the Multi-Sector Advisory Board, where I chair the Advocacy and Communication Committee, further underscores my dedication to fostering communication and promoting essential causes within our society.

Lastly, as an IT advocate, I have had the opportunity to donate software globally and teach the value of free and open-source software, cybersecurity, and the importance of an open digital world. These efforts highlight the essence of being helpful and of service, ensuring that technology can be a force for good and accessible to all. These are just a few examples of how the mantra 'Be More, Be Useful, and Be of Service' has guided my actions and shaped my career. They inspire you to find ways to embody this mantra in your future endeavors.

Moreover, our journey must also embrace the value of nation-building. As we step out into the world, let us recognize our responsibility to contribute to the development and betterment of our nation. Nation-building is more than economic progress; it fosters unity, equity, and a sense of collective purpose. We have a role in creating an inclusive, just, and prosperous society.

Being part of nation-building means being aware of the broader impact of our actions and decisions. It means using our talents and resources to address societal challenges, support sustainable development, and promote justice and equality. It's about being leaders who are not just successful but who also inspire and uplift those around them.

I encourage you to embrace this mantra: Be More, Be Useful, and Be of Service. Let it guide your actions and decisions. Let it be the foundation upon which you build your future. As we step into the next chapter of our lives, let us do so with a commitment to making the world a better place, one act of service at a time.

Congratulations, Class of 2024. The future is yours. Go out and Be More, Be Useful, and Be of Service. Thank you.

Sabi Nila

Maiksi lang ang buhay, kaya pahalagahan natin ang bawat sandali. Yakapin ang pag-ibig, pahalagahan ang mga mahal sa buhay, at lumikha ng masasayang alaala. Pahalagahan ang paglalakbay at umawit ng may kagalakan.

Bawat araw ay regalo—gamitin natin ito sa pinakamakabuluhang paraan.

Ganyan ang Sabi Nila.

Eto, Pakingan nyo at mag-Enjoy! para po sa ating lahat ito. 

Commercial muna: I've released a single titled "Sabi Nila." Enjoy listening! 

You can find it here:

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=8QU3kBSVmbA

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Hello Raptor

 

Hello Raptor! In this field, hard work always pays off.

We dedicate our success to God and do it for our country and traditions.

Cheers everyone!

Not Feeling Well

 

The Rotary Club of MediaTech Way to Charge New Rotarians

Energizing Your Rotary Journey: The Rotary Club of MediaTech Way to Charge New Rotarians

Authored by Dr. Meric Mara, Charter President of Rotary Club of QC MediaTech

Welcome to the Rotary Club of QC MediaTech, where meaningful change meets technological innovation, all grounded by the Rotary ideal of "Service Above Self." Our guiding ethos are "Be More, Be Useful, and Be of Service." Here's how to embrace this ethos holistically:

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Be More: Elevate Your Impact

• Attendance: Engage actively in our diverse discussions, absorbing and contributing valuable insights.

• Payment of Dues: View your financial contributions as an investment in lasting change, transcending the realms of technology, media, and community service.

• Leadership: Spearhead committees that not only focus on tech or media but also align with Rotary's altruistic ideals.

• Continuous Learning: Participate in workshops and webinars to expand your understanding of how service and technology can intersect for greater good.

• Commitment to Excellence: Maintain high standards in every service project and campaign, embodying the ideal of "Service Above Self."

• Networking for Good: Leverage your professional and personal contacts to expand our club’s reach across various sectors.

• Embrace Innovation: Infuse innovative ideas into our projects to amplify our service impact.

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Be Useful: Become an Instrument of Change

• Participation: Deploy your diverse skills to magnify our club's outreach and the effectiveness of both tech-driven and community service projects.

• Effective Communication: Foster clear, aligned interactions within the club, bridging technology and service goals.

• Resourcefulness: Utilize a solutions-driven approach to maximize the impact of our initiatives across sectors.

• Collaboration: Engage in collaborative endeavors that marry technology and altruism to create meaningful change.

• Accountability: Utilize metrics and insights to underscore the societal impact we are achieving.

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Be of Service: Maximize Your Positive Impact

• Leadership: Take charge in implementing diverse solutions—tech-focused or otherwise—to meet the needs of our community and beyond.

• Community Engagement: Leverage various platforms to amplify community voices, stories, and needs, fulfilling the "Service Above Self" motto.

• Skill-Based Service: Offer your expertise in workshops and mentorship sessions that serve the community's evolving needs.

• Global Awareness: Collaborate with global initiatives that resonate with both Rotary’s broader mission and our club’s unique focus.

• Mentorship: Guide newer members in aligning their professional skills with their Rotary service journey.

• Ethical Conduct: Exemplify the highest ethical standards across all endeavors, be it in technology, media, or direct community service.

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By embodying this guiding ethos, you transition from merely being a member to becoming a catalyst for meaningful change. We’re setting a precedent for how technology, media, and the spirit of "Service Above Self" can unite for the betterment of society. 

Welcome to your transformative journey with the Rotary Club of QC MediaTech!

You don't need a crown to be a hero

You don't need a crown to be a hero. But the crown of hope and inspiration is for everyone, anytime, anywhere in the Philippines—and in the world.

Inspirasyon sa Pagbabago

 Inspirasyon sa Pagbabago

Ni: Meric Mara

Sa tela ng buhay na tukoy ay tunay,

Isang dilag doon, sa kapwa ay may alay.

Katuwang sa misyon ng pagbabagong sadya,

Pusong umaalab, sa pagmamahal ay diwa.

Kanya-kanyang papel sa buhay na dula,

Ngunit sa bawat yugto, pagkakaisa'y tiyak na.

Matulungin sa kapwa, simbolong walang sala,

Pagtulong sa iba, sa atin ay nagdadala.

Ngiti mong kay ganda, pintura ng pag-asa,

Bukas ay may bago, sa'yong mata'y nasa.

Ako'y naniniwala, sa iyong halaga,

Inspirasyon sa lahat, pag-asa'y walang sawa.

Tinutukoy natin ang kinabukasang landas,

Saksi ang dilag, guro, at ang buong palasyo.

Sa misyon ng pagbabago, tayo'y kasama,

Pinta ng inspirasyon, sa bawat puso'y tatama.

Ang Tuntunin ng Pagtutulungan sa Negosyo.

Sa isang siyudad, mayroong isang maliit ngunit umaasensong kumpanya na pinamahalaan ni Haring Tigre. Ang kumpanya ay patuloy na lumalaki, kaya't nagdesisyon si Haring Tigre na mag-hire ng bagong empleyado. Pinili niya si Aso dahil sa kanyang sipag at dedikasyon.

"Sabi ko, Aso, kaya kita isinama rito ay para palakihin natin ang kumpanya sa pamamagitan ng pagtutulungan. Ang kailangan natin ay pagkakaisa at hindi kompetisyon," paalala ni Haring Tigre.

Ngunit may isa pang empleyado sa kumpanya na hindi masaya sa bagong pagkakataon, si Pusa. Dahil sa kanyang sariling interes, nagsimula si Pusa na gumawa ng mga hakbang para siraan si Aso. Pinalabas niyang si Aso ay hindi marunong magtrabaho at hindi dapat pagkatiwalaan.

"Ano ba ang ginagawa mo, Pusa? Kung patuloy kang magiging hadlang, mawawalan ka ng trabaho," banta ni Haring Tigre nang malaman ang nangyari.

Tahimik na umupo si Pusa at isinaalang-alang ang kanyang mga ginawa. Sa wakas, napagtanto niya na mali ang kanyang pagkilos. Sa halip na magdulot ng problema, dapat ay tumulong siya sa pag-angat ng kumpanya.

"Pag-pasensiyahan n'yo na ako, Haring Tigre at Aso. Nais ko lang ay ang aking sariling kapakanan, ngunit ngayon ay nauunawaan ko na ang aming tagumpay ay tagumpay ng lahat," pahayag ni Pusa.

Mula noon, nagbago ang ihip ng hangin sa kumpanya. Naging mas masigla ang lahat sa kanilang mga gawain, at dahil sa pagtutulungan ni Aso at Pusa, patuloy na umasenso ang negosyo. Haring Tigre, sa kanyang parte, ay lalong naging inspirado na pamahalaan ang kumpanya sa isang paraan na ang lahat ay magkakaroon ng oportunidad na magtagumpay.

At sa bawat tagumpay na kanilang natamo, palaging naaalala ng lahat ang aral na itinuro sa kanila ng insidente—na ang tunay na pag-angat ay nanggagaling sa pagtutulungan, at ang personal na interes ay hindi dapat maging hadlang sa collective na tagumpay.

Ang Aso at Ang Kanyang Anino

Ang Aso at Ang Kanyang Anino

Isang araw, may isang aso na may kagat-kagat na masarap na buto. Tuwang-tuwa siya at naisipang dumaan sa isang tulay na may ilog sa ibaba. Habang naglalakad siya sa tulay, nakita niya ang kanyang anino sa ilog. Akala niya ito'y isa pang aso na may mas malaking buto.

Napuno ng inggit, iniwan niya ang kanyang buto sa tulay at tumalon sa ilog para kunin ang mas malaking buto. Ngunit sa kanyang pagtalon, nawala ang kanyang buto at ang kanyang anino. Umalis siyang luhaan at walang dala.

Kaya, Mag-ingat sa pagtitiwala sa mga taong mabait sa harapan pero may masamang balak sa likod. At higit sa lahat, huwag hayaang matalo ng inggit; ito ay walang magandang maidudulot.

 

Ang Pagong at ang Kuneho ('Wag ng karera hehehe!)

Sa isang kagubatan sa Bulacan, laging pinagmamalaki ni Kuneho ang kanyang bilis kay Pagong. "Pagong, bakit hindi mo ako subukang talunin sa karera?" hamon ni Kuneho.

"Hindi sa pagiging mabilis ang sukatan ng tagumpay, Kuneho. Ang mahalaga ay ang pagpapabuti ng sarili," sagot ni Pagong.

Sa halip na sumali sa karera, nagdesisyon si Pagong na mag-practice. Araw-araw, nag-exercise siya, nag-aral, at nag-focus sa kanyang well-being.

Isang araw, dumating ang isang bagyo na winasak ang bahay ni Kuneho. "Paano na ako?" tanong ni Kuneho.

"Wag kang mag-alala," sagot ni Pagong. "Dahil sa aking pag-practice, natutunan kong gumawa ng matibay na bahay. Tara, tutulungan kita."

Mula noon, naging mas matatag ang kanilang pagkakaibigan. Natutunan ni Kuneho na higit na mahalaga ang pagpapabuti ng sarili kaysa sa pagpapatunay ng kanyang kakayahan.

***WAKAS***

Anong aral para sa ating lahat? Ang pagpapabuti ng sarili ay mas mahalaga kaysa sa pagpapatunay na ikaw ay magaling. Sa pag-focus sa pag-unlad, hindi lamang natin inaangat ang ating sarili kundi nagiging inspirasyon din tayo para sa iba.

 

Hay Matsing!

Hay Matsing!

Isang araw, sa isang tahimik na kagubatan, may isang matsing na nagngangalang Bukelay at isang ibon na ang pangalan ay Ira. Si Bukelay ay palaging nagbibigay ng pagkain kay Ira, at dahil dito, naging magkaibigan sila.

Ngunit isang araw, nakita ni Ira na may iba pang mga hayop na nangangailangan ng tulong. Gusto niyang tulungan ang iba, ngunit nagalit si Bukelay.

"Saan ka pupunta?" tanong ni Bukelay. "Ako ang nagpapakain sa iyo. Dapat kang manatili at tumulong sa akin palagi."

"Ngunit may iba ring nangangailangan," sagot ni Ira.

"Kung aalis ka, huwag nang bumalik," banta ni Bukelay.

Si Ira, sa kabila ng panghihikayat ni Bukelay na manatili, ay nagdesisyon na tulungan ang iba. Napansin niya na hindi siya dapat magpatali sa isang relasyon na puro obligasyon lamang.

Sa kalaunan, natutunan ni Bukelay na hindi niya pag-aari si Ira at ang kanyang kabutihan. Si Ira naman ay natutunan na mas mabuting magbigay ng tulong na walang hinihinging kapalit.

Ang aral ng kwento: Hindi porke't may nagawa ka para sa iba, ay may utang na loob na sila sa iyo. Ang tunay na kabutihan ay walang hinihintay na kapalit.

Materyalismo vis-a-vis Pagkakaibigan

 Isang araw sa kagubatan ng mga hayop, nagkaroon ng isang malalaking puno ng kahoy na nagngangalang "Materyalismo." Ito'y puno ng mga kagamitan at bagay-bagay na makikita sa mundo ng mga tao. Malapit dito ay may munting puno ng kahoy na ang pangalang "Pagkakaibigan." Ito'y puno ng mga masarap na prutas at maaliwalas na lilim.

Ang mga hayop sa kagubatan ay nagtutunggalian sa puno ng Materyalismo. Gusto nilang kunin ang lahat ng mga bagay na nakatambak dito, gaya ng magarang mga kasuotan at mamahaling alahas. Sa kabilang banda, ang puno ng Pagkakaibigan ay puno ng masarap na prutas na nagpapalakas sa katawan ng mga hayop at nagbibigay ligaya sa kanilang puso.

Isang araw, nagkaruon ng malakas na bagyo na nagdala ng malakas na hangin at ulan. Ang puno ng Materyalismo ay nabuwal, at ang lahat ng mga bagay na nakatambak dito ay nawala. Subalit ang puno ng Pagkakaibigan ay nanatili, patuloy na nagbibigay ng masarap na prutas at lilim sa mga hayop.

Sa pangyayaring ito, natutunan ng mga hayop sa kagubatan na ang tunay na kayamanan ay hindi matatagpuan sa mga bagay, kundi sa mga kaibigan at pamilya. Naging mas matalino sila sa pagpili ng mga bagay na tunay na mahalaga sa kanilang buhay, at nagkaruon sila ng mas makulay at masaya na pamumuhay dahil sa kanilang pagkakaroon ng malalapit na kaibigan.

Sa huli, naging halimbawa ang puno ng Pagkakaibigan sa kagubatan bilang isang paalala na ang mga bagay na may tunay na halaga ay hindi matatagpuan sa mga bagay na makikita sa labas, kundi sa puso ng bawat isa at sa mga relasyon na ating binubuo.

Isang Aral sa Pagkakawatak-Watak

 Isang Aral sa Pagkakawatak-Watak

Sa bayan ng San Juan, may mga magkakaibigan—si Mayeta, si Edpuno, si Aria, si Dina , at si Ely. May kanya-kanya rin silang talento at abilidad. Subalit sa halip na magtulungan, ang bawat isa sa kanila ay may kanya-kanyang agenda at hindi interesado sa pag-aambag sa ikabubuti ng kanilang komunidad.

Si Mayeta, isang mahusay na guro, ay hindi ibinabahagi ang kanyang kaalaman sa iba dahil sa kanyang kasakiman. Si Edpuno, na isang mahusay na inhenyero, ay hindi tumutulong sa mga proyektong pangkomunidad at sa halip ay nagpopokus lamang sa kanyang sariling mga proyekto. Si Aria, na isang dalubhasa sa teknolohiya, ay ginagamit ang kanyang kasanayan para sa mga ilegal na gawain. Si Dina, na isang magaling na abogado, ay ginagamit ang batas para sa personal na kapakinabangan. At si Ely, isang talentadong artista, ay lumilikha ng mga obra na nagpapalaganap ng negatibong mensahe sa komunidad.

Dahil sa kanilang pagiging makasarili, hindi lamang sila nawalan ng pagkakataon na magtagumpay sa kanyang mga indibidwal na larangan, kundi pati na rin ang kanilang komunidad ay naapektohan. Hindi nagtagal, dumating ang isang malupit na bagyo sa bayan ng San Juan. Sa oras na kailangang magtulungan, wala ni isa sa kanila ang handang gawin ito.

Ang resulta? Ang kanilang bayan ay higit pang nasira, at ang mga residente ay mas lalong nahirapan. Walang pag-unlad, walang suporta, at higit sa lahat, walang pagkakaisa. Sila ay naging simbolo ng pagkakawatak-watak at pagkakabigo na sana'y magkakasama sa pagharap sa anumang pagsubok.

Ang kawalan ng pagkakaisa ay nagdudulot ng kasiraan hindi lang sa indibidwal kundi pati na rin sa mas malawak na komunidad. Ito ang aral na iniwan sa amin ng magkakaibigan mula sa bayan ng San Juan.

Same-same pero iba-iba

 Tanong? Bakit Hindi Sapat ang Parehong Trip sa Pagtulong?

Madalas, akala natin pag pareho tayo ng trip, mag-jive na agad tayo sa lahat ng bagay. Pero hindi ganun eh. Mas importante yung mga pinaniniwalaan natin sa buhay, lalo na pagdating sa pagtulong sa iba. Ibang level yung pagiging totoo sa sarili at pagrespeto sa ibang tao.

Kaya next time na mag-volunteer ka o tumulong, isipin mo rin kung anong mas importante para sa'yo at sa mga kasama mo. Hindi lang ito magpapaganda sa experience mo, pero mas magiging meaningful din yung tulong na ibibigay mo. Kasi alam mo sa sarili mo na yung ginagawa mo, ayon yun sa mga bagay na importante at tama para sa lahat.

Kahit na exciting ang magkaruon ng parehong mga hilig at interes, laging tandaan na ang totoong koneksyon ay nangyayari kapag nagtutugma ang mga prinsipyo at mithiin sa buhay. Ito ang nagbibigay halaga sa bawat oras at effort na inilalaan mo sa pagtulong sa iba. So, huwag lang basta sumama sa hype o sa uso. Hanapin mo yung mga taong hindi lang same-same ang trip, pero aligned din sa mga bagay na gusto mong pagtuunan ng pansin. Mas masarap tumulong at magbigay ng oras kung alam mong may malalim na dahilan at magandang layunin ang lahat sa grupo.

Damdamin sa Sining Terapiya

 Damdamin sa Sining Terapiya

Naging gawi na ata namin ang pumunta tuwing linggo sa Rotary Center para sa Sining Terapiya, ewan ko ba? Magkaibang damdamin ang mararamdaman kapag ang pagtulong ay isang beses lamang ginawa kumpara sa isang regular o palagiang aktibidad. Kung ito'y isang beses lang, maaring maramdaman ang excitement o kasiyahan, pati na rin ang satisfaction na nakatulong ka kahit paano. Subalit, kapag ito ay naging regular na gawain tuwing Linggo, ang mga damdamin ay magiging mas kompleks at may kasamang sense ng responsibilidad at commitment.

Kakaibang ekspiryens talaga, yun bang, Makita ang mga bata na nagpapahayag ng kanilang sarili sa mga bagong paraan at maranasan ang kaligayahan sa pamamagitan ng sining ay maaaring magdala ng mataas na antas ng inspirasyon at pag-angat ng damdamin.

Ang lingguhang pagtatalaga sa isang layuning mas malaki kaysa sa iyong sarili ay maaaring maglingkod bilang regular na paalala ng iyong mga halaga at ambisyon, na nagpapanibago sa iyong damdamin ng layunin o misyon sa buhay.

Bawat Linggo ay maaaring magdala ng halo-halong mga damdamin, na nag-aambag sa iyong personal at emosyonal na paglago. Laging tandaan, Ang paglaan ng iyong oras sa ganitong paraan ay maaaring maging isang karanasang nagbabago sa buhay.

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Inang Aruga

 This is a poem that I dedicated to my mom Mely Mara.

I recited it during the final night of her wake, following the Mass. The poem is titled 'Inang Aruga.'

Inang aruga

Ni Meric Mara

Inang nag-aaruga,

sa puso'y puno.

Mabuting asal,

sa kanya ang pag-tubo

Sa'yong mga braso,

laging may kalinga.

Inang pag-aaruga,

hindi kailan man

maikukumpara

Sa sakit, sa hirap,

sa'yo kami’y sumasadya.

Ina, sa alaga,

walang makakapantay na tila.

Laging tinatanong,

"Anak, kayo ay mabuti ba?

"Pagmamahal mo Ina,

walang kapantay at kapara.

Tawa mo'y melodiya,

sa tahanan ay ligaya.

Sa bawat pagsubok,

ikaw ang aming tala.

Mahalin ang kapwa,

ito'y iyong laging paalala.

Sa iyong pag-aaruga,

kami’y sana, sa kapwa’y tama.

Ngayon kahit wala,

damang-dama pa rin.

Pag-aaruga mo,

sa puso't isip ay tumanim

Sa langit man ngayon,

pagmamahal mo'y buo.

Pag-aaruga ng Ina,

hindi mawawala sa puso.

Kahit saan man kami.

iyong pagmamahal ay ramdam.

Sa mga pagsubok at hamon,

ikaw ang aming sandalan.

Ina, sa iyong aruga,

kami’y hindi napapagod.

Sa pag-aaruga ng Ina,

kami’y ginagabayan

kamasa ang mahal na ama.